Spot a time waster!
We say that a person is leading us on when we feel that we are being given false hope, and in our specific case, a potential client can lead on an escort just to keep her talking to him, in expectation of him setting up the details of an actual date, by appealing to a lot of schemes.
In this article we are about to show you ladies some signs that, if encountered, can be seen as red flags, regarding that guy’s real intentions.
So, take a look and if you identify some of these schemes when talking to a potential client, keep in mind that you might be dealing with a time waster!
One compliment after another If the guy you are talking to keeps: complimenting you, trying so hard to show you how special he feels you are to him, doing cheesy flirting with vague, generic compliments, that can be sent in bulk to whomever, sending lots and lots of emoticons while not saying anything personal or specific regarding your looks or your personality then that is a red flag that suggests he’s a time waster. He just wants to keep you hooked, to make you invest time and interest in his persona, without having any interest in actually book you for a date.
So, ladies next time a potential client sends you lots of emoticons and it keeps on telling you how hot you are, how sexy, how attractive, and so on, but doesn’t say anything else about your actual date, stop the conversation right there because in most cases it won’t end up with a date. Copy and paste approach If you feel his approach is impersonal and seems a bit “copy and paste”, then perhaps you should listen to your instincts and if you have relationship with other escorts in the area, check with them if they are also approached by the same guy. Exchanging information with a close group of escorts is very valuable in this type of work. So, keep that line of communication alive and discuss time wasters between you, and if one of you has time wasters noted in your diary, you can give those Other escorts know. Just talking without a plan There’s another kind of time waster, the kind that gets you caught up in endless conversations, let alone long-term plans. Going around arranging a date, fixing dates that you cannot accept, these are ways for him to guide you and make you addicted to free chats and photos, without need to plan with you.
He is confusing you with someone else This is a big red flag that he has been chatting with many other escorts and is sending you the same messages. A client who really wants to meet with you will be quick and clear about the time, place, and what they want out of the meeting. If he starts talking, he refuses every opportunity to meet, makes all kinds of excuses, if he only talks but does not act then honey, he will most likely guide you and do the same on one’s own with other escorts. What other red flags do you think are warning signs that he’s wasting his time?
Share your experiences with us so other escorts can know what red flags to look for and reject any man who tries to lead them on under false pretences.